Good news guys, I finally won my first singles match!

Won the doubles too today, we played 5-5 as a team.
My opponent wasn't in his best shape, but what really did it today was that I knew from last time that his barely OK forehand is much weaker than his backhand, which is super strong. He's clever enough to not show you that at all during warmup, but I avoided his backhand during the match, sending most balls to his forehand, and made him play awkward shots with his backhand that were just about uncomfortable to reach. I almost always attacked to his forehand. This resulted in forehand-forehand rallies, but he'd also then target my backhand, knowing my weaker side is my backhand, so I made sure to step around to continue using my forehand. I won 3-1. The sets I won, I won comfortably. The one I lost, I lost 9-11.
I would not have won this match if I hadn't learnt to, quote from the first post:
"Lock in on your opponent's elbow and keep hitting it there." because having done that (not constantly of course) in prior matches, I could now direct the ball to make it awkward for my opponent to play his backhand.
I didn't really want to look at why I lost the other 2 matches today, just celebrate the one I won, but it's become automatic to analyze, so I already know why: The other 2 guys are good pushers/choppers and I just don't do well against those yet, me being an attacker (with a painful shoulder this week, from topspin practise). One of them played lots of backspin and I couldn't lift them. The other guy gave me a mix of backspin and dead balls that gave me a lot of trouble. (Hitting over the end of the table or in the net etc.). I should practise pushing so that I become less forced to open up the points before I make a pushing error, and learn how to make them play an easier ball to attack. My teammate that won all his games today, can attack well but also has a good pushing game. It was hard to concentrate because it was a very busy, noisy place, lots of sound echo.
The things listed in the first post are vital. I highly recommend developing players to check them out. Thank you so much for your contributions, guys.
