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 Post subject: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 19 Jan 2014, 07:07 
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So I'm playing in my first tournament this weekend, and was wondering how things work during a match. Specifically, I tend to talk a lot when I play, and it's always been second nature to me to say "nice shot" after every good shot my opponent plays. I'll also say things like "that was close!", or "ohhh" if they hit an edge or the net and get the point. It's not like a mental game or anything like that, I'm just friendly during matches. Is this going to be a problem? I really don't know what to expect, and would rather not feel like a total jackass if you know what I mean. Are there any other things regarding good etiquette I should know?


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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 19 Jan 2014, 07:42 
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I don't think there is anything wrong with being friendly during a match. However, depending on your level and the seriousness of the match, you may find less and less reciprocation. I am fairly similar to you when playing someone I know well, but when playing someone I don't know and with the added intensity of a tournament - I am so focused on playing my absolute best, the comments seem to all but disappear on their own. (except if there are repeated nets and edges - the ooo is a reflex). I don't think your opponents would be mad at you for saying 'nice shot' as long as you didn't expect them to do the same. I would just suggest that you read the body language and if they seem annoyed by it, you may just tone it down a little.

But I say be who you are! There are enough pricks out there, it is truly refreshing when I play a friendly person in a tournament.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 19 Jan 2014, 10:50 
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Very good points by Crazy Goat :up:

I would also like to add that you should make sure you don't talk during a point, because that may well result in a warning from the umpire.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 19 Jan 2014, 11:53 
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As long as you do not scream CHO at the top of your lungs after every point NOT won by a long rally, like say CHO after a serve receive error... As long as you do NOT do that and prance around after the point, whatever you screw up will be forgivable.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
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Screaming cho is looked down soon here as unsporting. Most people will congratulate you on a good shot in between points but not everyone responds, doing so isn't a problem. Just not during a point. I find some beggineers say sorry for edge balls way too fast ie before you return them. It doesn't bother me much and I can still focus on adjusting my stroke to return edged balls. They just do it out of habit because players their level don't continue playing edges so you can't be upset.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 19 Jan 2014, 22:56 
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I also tend to compliment opponents on their good shots. Its out of friendliness, but I think it also affirms in your (my) mind you were beaten by a good shot and therefore keeps your mental attitude more afloat. Often opponents will say "Thanks" when complimented which tends to show its appreciated. If it seems to be annoying them, then that's their problem for being an ignoramus, so just keep it up :lol: :lol:

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
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Yeah, I've definitely been that guy saying sorry for an edge only to have it be returned. same thing with saying "nice shot" thinking I can't get to it, then returning that shot. Otherwise I tend to kind of grunt loudly when I really have to reach for one, or if I try to hit it hard. It's nothing ridiculous, but it's something I'm conscious of. I never cho or even celebrate when I win a point. If it's a good one I just smile. Now that I think about it I usually laugh during matches too, like if an opponent gets a crazy net or drops one really short that I can't get to, or even after a long rally. I don't know, I guess I just don't take myself too seriously, I play the game in the first place because it's fun as hell. The main reason for even playing in a tournament for me is to get a rating and have a gauge of my skill level, that way I can judge my improvement. The big problem is I get pretty nervous in situations like this, so I'm afraid I won't even win a match. Just out of curiosity, how can you become rated if you enter a tournament but don't win any matches? Do you still get a number based on how many points you won?


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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 20 Jan 2014, 05:22 
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Jason, there is a double top secret formula used to make both cough syrup and the initial USATT rating for a new player.

Basically, the more points you make vs all players, especially the better ones, will help the initial rating. Don't worry too much what number that comes out to be, when you do a lot of tourneys, the rating will stabilize to the correct rating, unless you either improve or run into a pile of under-rated players. Even then, with more tourneys it works itself out.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 27 Jan 2014, 02:45 
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So the tournament was yesterday. I did pretty poorly (got beat by a 12 year old my first match, but he's like a 760), but I had a great time! My only regret is not entering more events, because I only got to play 4 matches, and I felt like I was just warming up. I feel like I really didn't "hit" a ball all day, just blocks and pushes, I guess my nerves kinda got the best of me. I won 1 match, and I kept the others pretty close. Overall it was an awesome experience, and I can't wait to do it again. The talking thing was a non-issue thankfully, everyone was really friendly after I got to talk to them for a minute. I'm scared of what my rating will be, I'm guessing pretty low after all that, but you gotta start somewhere I guess. Anyway, thank you guys for the advice, it definitely gave me a better sense of what to expect.


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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 27 Jan 2014, 20:48 
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Tournament experience can be a big factor in matches. You'll find that there are players who play really well at clubs in practice matches, but put them in an "official" match and they crumble. Just getting the experience of playing different people with different styles, when something is "on the line" like rating points or the chance to advance in the event, is a big first step. You will learn from the experience, don't ever let your results get you down. Keep in mind that this is for fun, your rating will go up and down, but ultimately you are doing this because it's enjoyable, and if you remember that you will find the results naturally come.

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 28 Jan 2014, 05:01 
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I have found erring on the side of being quiet during the match never hurts.


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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
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I can be loud at times, but it's always just yelling at myself. And I never celebrate a point unless it's a really great point that ends in a clean winner. NEVER celebrate a net or edge. I also do not like playing against players who are "chatty". That is, they try to have a conversation between every points. In a practice match at the club I don't mind that so much, but in a tournament setting I'm there to compete. Now, I'll talk to you all you want between matches. But during the match, no. Oh, and I have no problem saying "nice shot".

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
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I definitely am not chatty during a match, but I always talk to the other person afterward. I usually will pick things out about the player that stand out, such as "you've got a really nice backhand", or "your serves really got me!", or something like that. Most everyone at the tournament was really cool to talk to though. I guess my level of "competitiveness" is overshadowed by how much fun I have playing, I don't know. Maybe that will change when I start actually winning, guess we'll see.


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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
PostPosted: 29 Jan 2014, 01:29 
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And I never celebrate a point unless it's a really great point that ends in a clean winner.


Doug, somewhere in my video files I have that amazing point you hit the winner on in our doubles match against Avery/Running (when the game was at deuce), and your celebratory scream afterward. If I can find it and video edit it, can I post it here? :)

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 Post subject: Re: Etiquette question
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Ha ha ha, Jim, I know exactly the point you're talking about. Feel free to post it if you can find it! To me, that is the perfect example of a point where a loud celebration is acceptable. :)

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